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Post 1 by laced-unlaced (Account disabled) on Monday, 28-Nov-2005 9:49:00

my friend terry is meant to give me a cd back which i leant him months ago! he always says he'll give it back but never does!

if someone you know always broke promises would you still be friends with them?

Post 2 by laced-unlaced (Account disabled) on Monday, 28-Nov-2005 9:49:55

oh yes and sometimes don't you think the reason they won't keep there promises is because there're hiding something from you?

Post 3 by rat (star trek rules!) on Monday, 28-Nov-2005 10:31:42

or maybe they forget, i have done it myself.

Post 4 by nikos (English words from a Greek thinking brain) on Monday, 28-Nov-2005 12:14:19

I think you are right that he should give it to you especialy if you keep reminding him but you shouldn't say any names in here. I think that wasn't right to do.

Post 5 by Twinklestar09 (I've now got the bronze prolific poster award! now going for the silver award!) on Monday, 28-Nov-2005 14:11:01

I would find it hard to stay friends with a person who kept breaking promises. I mean, I wouldn't hate the person or not talk to them anymore, but I would honestly find it hard to trust them with anything. Although I would understand a reason such as forgetting, to use that as a reason for all or most things would just get old for me, and I would ask them to make sure they had the thing I'd lent them with them when we next met, including reminding them about it if we were planning to meet sometime, I mean reminding them around that time. If they had lost or damaged it, or just misplaced it at home, I'd rather them be honest and tell me, and I would be more understanding about that. But if they lent it out or left it where it had a good chance of being taken or damaged or lost, and it was away from their home, it'd be harder for me to trust them with anything else of mine.

Post 6 by rat (star trek rules!) on Tuesday, 29-Nov-2005 11:10:20

i agree with that 100%

Post 7 by Senior (I've now got the bronze prolific poster award! now going for the silver award!) on Friday, 02-Dec-2005 7:43:25

If you don't get something you're entitled to by asking for it, get it by using force!

Post 8 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Saturday, 03-Dec-2005 9:06:44

Certainly not there's are few things more hurtful than continually broken promises.

Post 9 by Godzilla-On-Toast (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Monday, 05-Dec-2005 6:27:27

I've very rarely lent any of my music out to people because I feared either I'd never get it back else it would come back in worse shape than it was in when I had it.

Post 10 by jessmonsilva (Taking over the boards, one topic at a time.) on Monday, 05-Dec-2005 12:08:16

I hink it is fine if people forget once or twice but constantly using that as an excuse is not necessary. If you have kept hounding him/her about it and have not gotten it back, then it is not worth their friendship.

Post 11 by sophiagoh (Generic Zoner) on Thursday, 15-Dec-2005 23:55:59

yah i agreed with that. Sometime after chasing them for a few times you feel tired of asking and end up forgetting about it.